It’s all about loving yourself, especially the nasty bits.
I was this shy guy.
Till I found out:
- I was not shy but highly sensitive.
- I was not a guy but a woman.
Fifty years of hiding makes me an expert on avoiding mechanisms.
If you feel something is holding you back, it’s probably you, avoiding something.
If you feel your not in touch with your intuition, it’s probably you, avoiding something.
If you feel perfectly okay all the time, you are definitely avoiding something.
You get the drift, This avoiding thing, we do it all. Even though we have been facing so many things about ourselves, there are always these things we don’t want to feel.
I found out that coaching programs can actually enforce avoiding mechanisms (most coaches don’t even realise that)
I found out that most inspirational speakers enforce avoiding mechanisms.
I learn coaches see through these mechanisms (and yes, in the process, there will be work for themselves too)
I am one of the very few inspirational speakers who doesn’t push the easy buttons. I give my audience the real message: loving yourself is hard work. (But so rewarding!)